This Aint HBO!

I have had an interesting romantic life. I have decided to share my stories of love and lust with the world. My failures and triumphs will hopefully pass the torch of romantic love to another SGL brother or sister. My first post in this series will deal with the present. I will try and cobble my wake to it through my forthcoming posts.
So I recently decided to stop being a wallflower and jump back in the game. A game, thats right there are objectives, rules, and winners. Therefore, there are losers. The great thing about it is you start a new game with every person that danes to join you. One of my first new game tactics was to post an ad on a dating site that made me more marketable. I had dealt with the more popular sites for Black men in search of other men ( for whatever interval of time they required). I often found that the list of suitors grew short fast.More often, they just weren't suitable game partners.
On this new site I was not an anomaly for my size and appearance but because of my sheer Blackness. It is interesting to note, that although my new site of choice is international, I rarely got a mention of my Blackness. Although, on the prior sites that were mostly aimed at Black American homos, I was constantly reminded of my Blackness (esp. my Darkness). It became so disenchanting. The complexion of a Black man to me is not a deterrent or an attraction! I have never understood the fascination. I look for bone structure, teeth, grooming, stuff that makes a person them not a category.
Anyways, I have been happily clicking and chatting meeting men from all over the world! I have a particularly strong following in Pacific Mexico. I have to note that I have always been fascinated with this region. I plan to have a house full of houseboys in Cabo some day!I, however, met my most consistent suitors in the Atlanta Metro area. I guess Internet dating be damned ppl still aren't romantic enough for an international fling.
I have always dreamed of having a romantic partner on the other side of the globe. Rendezvous in Marseilles and Amsterdam, planned twice a year or more if possible. I guess royalty really don't see love in the same way as sheeple!
Concurrently I have been trying to meet men the old fashioned way! In person! Its so much easier when you are affable and well mannered. My protocol coach when I was a child (aka Grandma) would always tell me "People are funny baby, just deal with them as much as you can. And say No thank you, when you have had enough" (RIP GMa)
I must say, I am very taken by a young man right now. He is tall, dark, and handsome. And he is very clear about his royal status. Mainly, he seems to hold the same tenet I have for possible suitors: Keep it Positive! We are always wishing each other the best and hoping for great things!It is the manifesting of positive energy that balances the negativity in our daily lives. Never choose a lover that takes more of you than they want to replace. Like Lauryn said " Who I got to be to get some Reciprocity" Up in this MuthafuckA! It is so far so good, Stay Tuned!
AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH!